it’s because most of America has been brought up by “religion” that sex is not to be promoted and used as a tool for making money or gaining power

Well the Grecians and Romans had fun for how long?

It’s religion that built America

I remember the great Venus De Light – 2 time stripper hall of famer and 6 time miss nude universe and pro prostitution said to me she was retiring from the industry because of the taking of strippers tips by some of the largest strip clubs in the country

She fought years ago in Manhattan flashing her titties with her friends to fight against the obcenity law that women wouldnt bare their breasts in public but men can.

She won for awhile

lol

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One thing about becoming a provider is that noone will help you when you start out.
If anything,Some might throw up road blocks,
but help is not on the high list of cool things to do.
Not in my case any way.

I swore I would change that one day and give help to ones starting out.
A place they could go too and trust that the information was informative and up to date with all them stupid embarrassed to ask questions answered best I could without hanging myself or such but relieving my mind of any guilt for throwing them out to the wolves as they are today.

Alot of assumption for most that anyone doing this type of work is from this arena already.
Having been dancing or massage or just the local whore of township seems to make you a candidate too.
I was not.
I had regular career for 22 years.
I Was raised as all inhibited good catholic girls and knew little of sex or how to do it in that many ways let alone talk about it much
without getting a bit red.

Had someone bet me four years ago,bet me a million bucks
I would be sitting around one day,
reading through public forums and such on the internet
hoping there was a raving review on my abilties,well,
I would be in the hole a million bucks for sure.

Just goes to show you,life still has her ways of giving the cosmic burp on ya.
Im on a new path of life and hey,I was always kind of a wild
child adventure free spirited type of gal anyway.

I threw off my societal mind screwing shackles and put on fuzzy ones.

After I lost my job while getting shafted,boned and tatooed with no paint.
I came to thinking about this as a career option after seeing a special on the history channel for tax evasion and the Mustang Ranch.
I was also motivated by my soon homeless state if I did not
come up with some money for the hands out asking for it all the time.
Being the kind of woman who does what she has to do,
I tried it.
I think I am still trying it,lol,
as I do not feel I have any tip of the “tip” of the iceburg
in knowledge of all there is to this.
I cant find anyone who wants an understudy .haha
Or anyone who wants to train me individually and privately for millions a year.

(The Position is still open by the way,better hurry though,its a one of kind chance to spoil rotton a gal,
all the while teaching her all you know in how to please you in any way
we deem funner than monkey barrels,
while paying grossly expensive fees. Opportunity knocks!)
lol
I havent made near what the girl on tv said she was making weekly.
But I do have hopes. ha ha
Yes being at the ranch I am sure had its rewards and status of many wealthy men coming through just to say they had been there in thier lifetime.

I am not really on that list of things to do before they die ,
let alone aristocrats at the present time,
but I have high expectations ! ROFL

Back to the starting out problems.
Nothing like a marked women to slime balls who prey on newbies.
Most forums and Back ground checking places wont take you in or let you post ads until you have three reviews.
It is a catch 22 and the new gals are at mercy of the scumbags,being socially labeled as such and in open for all to see.

You cant be seen,
rather no ads to see your offering anything,
are in business,
if not able to post ads.
How can you get reviews if not posting ads?
Who would see you? Where can you post one?
Then on top of it most men will not see anyone that is new.

You hope for brave nice clients to call soon.
Ask favor of god,
Can he maybe throw ya a boner this time in a hurry
so can stay sheltered and able to shower and eat.

They put Newbie on your forum handle name.
Now not for nothing,but if that is not a come and rob me
or treat me bad beacon,
I must be having a criminal mind,because it sure is what I would look for if I were a scum bag and preyed onthe new unknowledgable and scared witless but desperate due to liking dry sheets and water daily.
But not enough of a criminal I suppose as I never thought about resorting to losing my morals ,Yes I have some high standards of right and wrong.
Stealing was wrong and prostitution was not.

I am sure this is not mosts view,
but I never saw anything wrong with escorting or such.
If anything,I kind of found it intriquing,tabooishly fun if anything,
but of course my life was set on its course(so I had thought)
and that just was not an option at that point in life so
I really didnt think much on it.

So I was not really prepared in what or how to go about doing it.
So I winged it,affer finding out none was helpful or leading me where I mgiht find somelor letting on any was even around ot be found.

ON the good side,
I certainly did not have to hurdle much social persecution worries
or breaking law mind set as I never thoght it was a law worth having anyway.
It helped society way I saw it. So that part wasnt hard.
Actually I recall a moment that I was laughing hysterically on my carpet I managed to stay another month on thinking how ironic it was to be getting payed to have fun,as I was a bit of a home body,
I did not go out much.
I was still alive in my wants and desires
but was tired of the games,bars,creeps and disappointments,
so I was not seeing men all too often and well,no money to go out anyway.
BUt as odd as it was,
Here I am getting payed to go out,
have fun and what an ego boost to a aging woman to have men
pick them out due to some attributing factor or review
over all the many choices is well,flattering.

I felt pretty. It felt good, I was haoppy and I guess I was surprised I was. The stupidity of it all.
I am laughing now.
It makes no sense but it does but it dont.
Now I only had to do an hour or so of work at a time.
Make some money for bills,although very unpredictable as when i have it or how often,so thrill of that mixed in and I can manage to behave in public for an hour at a clip I think.

Its the dating jerks I had given up on and well,
now I get to have fun and no worry of relationship hell.
They leave. or I do.
and both are happy.
What a deal.
Broke, 42,feeling attractive and spunky for some michievious actions
or such I am discreetly trying to figure out while thrill of being so frightened of doing it wrong I end up embarrassingly in jail or dead or you know. Whatever could happen that I screw up in some way by being naiive.
While acting like I know exactly what I am doing
and I am damn good at it!
I guess the whole idea took me into the giggles as I wasnt in jail and I had it seemed made some happy faces,had one myself,kinda having fun,
money in my pocket(for now) still dont know shit and some thrill of being stupid I suppose ,the newness of it all.
The hand in the cookie jar and getting away with three of them?

Dr. Sue and porns helped alot.
Then it was my curiosity,
I like adult fun,am not dead,not bad looking I dont think,
a lot of mustered up bravado from balls of the invisible kind,
that gave me the guts to do it I suppose.
Possibly a lot of ego or rather pride.
I was not capable to ask for help or make my self a nuisance to others by begging or groveling.
I figured it was pretty obvious my issues to anyone who knew me and none seemed to find me worthy of worrying about so I wasnt going to go give satisfaction of watching me sink by giving them front row seats.

ONe day maybe I can fix this Newbie problem,
No one place to find information at problem one day on a website.
I am pleased to find today you have already thought of this yourself and
given this medium to us be utilized.

I am sure your book is full of much needed information
that could save a lot of stress,headaches,possibly even lives.

ANywya, I am still learning,and was impressed with your doing it and after reading your blog,
it appears as if it is going to be chock full of what I need and then some.
I look forward to stalking ya a bit in future.
In a good way of course.
You seem like you been through it all.
You also seem to of made it out shiny and with a sense of humor .
This is something in itself.
You have remained beautiful in heart
as well as that exterior wrapping being lovely to see as well,
that our fine little providing souls are wrapped in.

The way I see it with the society view point all sucky and backwards as it is,
that if any one used a bit of logic,
they would be making this legal.

Only reason it is not as well as drugs of some sorts is due to the ones making money off it big time way,
are the ones making it illegal.
They got it in thier pockets .
The cash coming from it,whether it is from busting us,selling us,using us or seeing us,they some how have thier hand in the till and do not want competition.
Period.
We should be getting praise and thank you notes if anything.

For one it saves marriages.
Providers and escorts are safer than the local tavern late night
take the beer pretty slut at closing time risk or
the free sex adverts that god knows why or when they did last and are not professionals and will most likely not be professional in action
of staying healthy and alive.
2,
The rape numbers surely have gone down due to this outlet being available.
I think if it was more available and easily obtained with out heat from police or the neighbors prying eyes,maybe the rates would go down considerably less.

3,
I do know that divorce rates are much lower.
Many would not have been able to stay in thier marriages for long
if they had no way of getting some kind of satisfaction thru another medium.

You seem like your on the ball and I hope to meet ya one day.
Stay sweet and keep the sarcasm ,I love it.
Micky

The tangled money issues are spot on. From society convincing us we shouldn’t appreciate and respect what we earn, to others thinking we’re “rolling in dough” (and stupid with it) to the whole “can’t save” thing.

But although I was supposed to feel less than human as a sex worker, to be honest, I felt more human than I do now. I miss it in many ways. There’s nothing better to put you in touch with your own humanity than reaching out to others–not that it can’t be draining. Or dangerous in this society.

I hope you get the chance to repeat this post in a speech and change some perceptions.

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